I have watched people get blindsided by layoffs over and over again. Smart people. Hard-working people. People who showed up early, stayed late, skipped vacations, and genuinely believed the company valued them. And then one morning, their badge stopped working and HR sent a calendar invite, or back in the office days were simply summoned into an office with management and HR. And on one occasion, I had to be the one doing the blindsiding. The corporate world is simply a beast. It doesn't care about you and will eat you the moment it is threatened.

The shock is never really about losing the job. It's about what the job represented: stability, identity, security. When that disappears overnight, people realize they outsourced their financial safety to someone else. That is a problem.

We are in a period right now where layoffs are not just happening, they are normalized. Tech companies that spent years aggressively hiring are cutting thousands at a time. Traditional industries are restructuring. Tariffs and economic uncertainty are reshaping entire sectors. Nobody's job is safe. And the people who will come out the other side okay are not the ones with the most impressive titles. They are the ones who prepared before they needed to.

The company is not your family

Let me be direct about something that took me a while to accept - the company you work for is a business. It exists to generate revenue (and preferably profits!). When your role stops serving that goal, it becomes a cost to eliminate. That is not cynical. That is just how it works.

The "family" language that companies use is a retention strategy. It creates loyalty that is rarely reciprocated at the same level. When budgets get tight, the family metaphor disappears quickly. What remains is a spreadsheet with headcount and a target number to hit.

I am not saying you should be miserable at work or distrust everyone around you. Build real relationships. Take pride in what you do. But never confuse the warmth of a good workplace culture with financial security. Those are two completely different things.

The sooner you internalize that you are replaceable, the sooner you start building a financial life that does not depend on any one employer continuing to write you a cheque.

Everyone is replaceable. Plan accordingly.

This is not a knock on your skills or your contributions. You might genuinely be excellent at what you do. But the decision to let you go often has nothing to do with your performance. It has to do with a budget decision made two levels above your manager, by someone who has never seen your work.

That is the reality of corporate employment. And it means you cannot afford to wait until a layoff happens to start thinking about your finances.

The goal is simple - build a financial life where losing your job is painful but survivable. Not catastrophic. Not life-altering. Just painful.

Here is how you get there.

1. Start saving early, and do not stop

The single most powerful thing you can do for your financial resilience is start early. Not because of discipline or willpower, but because of compounding. Money you invest at 25 does not just sit there. It grows, and then that growth grows.

If you waited, that is okay. Start now. The second best time is always today. But if you are young and reading this, understand that the gap between starting at 25 and starting at 35 is not 10 years of contributions. It is potentially hundreds of thousands of dollars over a lifetime.

The practical version of this: maximize your RRSP or 401(k), especially if your employer matches contributions. That match is free money and it is part of your compensation. Take all of it. Beyond that, contribute to a TFSA or Roth IRA regularly. Automate it so it happens before you see the money.

The point is not to get rich. The point is to build a cushion that buys you options when things go sideways at work...and for when you finally retire.

2. Budget like your income could disappear tomorrow

Most people budget around their current income. They spend close to what they make, with a little left over. That works fine until it doesn't.

If you are in a position where your job can be eliminated, a better approach is to budget around a reduced income. What would your life look like if your income dropped by 30%? What expenses are fixed, what can be cut, and what would need to go entirely? If you can answer that question clearly, you are in a much stronger position than most people. We took this approach about 13 years ago when my wife told me that she wanted to be a stay-at-home parent. It took us about a year but we were able to tune our lives and finances to live on a single income. And good thing we did this early because a couple of years after, she was laid off.

This is not about living in scarcity. It is about knowing your numbers. When you know exactly where your money goes every month, you can make decisions quickly if you need to. You are not scrambling to figure out what to cut. You already know.

3. Careful spending is not deprivation, it is leverage

There is a version of frugality that is just misery with a budget spreadsheet. That is not what I am describing.

Careful spending means you are intentional. You know the difference between what you value and what you are just buying out of habit or social pressure. You are not trying to keep up with anyone. You are building towards something.

The people in that school pickup line dropping $1,000 a month on a vehicle payment are not necessarily foolish. They just have not done the math on what that decision costs them over time. It is not just $1,000 a month. It is the investment returns on that $1,000 a month. It is the flexibility they do not have when the economy shifts. It is the gap between where they are and where they could be.

Every unnecessary expense you cut is not just money saved. It is optionality. It is the ability to walk away from a bad job, take time between roles, or weather a layoff without panic.

4. Build your emergency fund and treat it as sacred

Although I have argued that emergency funds are necessary in certain times of your life, now is a good time to temporarily make an exception. Three to six months of expenses in a liquid account. That is the baseline, unless you have a large portfolio that can help you weather a few years. I would argue that now, you should push toward six to twelve months, especially now, because job searches are taking longer than they used to.

This fund is not an investment. It is not there to grow. It exists for one reason: to give you a runway when something unexpected happens. And layoffs are, at this point, not even that unexpected. They are a regular feature of the employment landscape.

If your emergency fund is small or nonexistent, make building it your primary financial goal before anything else. Pay off high-interest debt first, then build the fund, then invest.

5. Invest consistently, regardless of market conditions

This is where a lot of people fall down. They start investing, then stop when markets get rough, or when life gets expensive, or when the news cycle convinces them something catastrophic is about to happen.

The people who build real wealth invest consistently over long periods and do not try to time the market. You will not pick the perfect entry point. Nobody does. What you can do is invest regularly, in low-cost index funds or dividend-paying stocks, and let time do the heavy work.

A laid-off person with a solid investment portfolio and six months of cash has options. A laid-off person with nothing saved has a crisis.That distinction is entirely in your control, and it starts before you ever need it.

The uncomfortable truth

Most people know they should be doing these things. They are not secrets. The problem is urgency. It is very easy to tell yourself you will start next year, when things calm down, after the next raise, once the car is paid off.

But the layoff does not wait for you to be ready. The restructuring does not check whether you have six months of savings first. It just happens.

The financial habits you build today are the safety net you will be glad exists when the moment comes. And statistically, that moment is coming for most of us at some point.

Your employer has lawyers, HR teams, and a severance calculator ready to go. Make sure you are as prepared as they are.

Build the freedom before you need it.

A younger me would work nights to catch up but older me doesn’t. If I get asked why work is delayed, I simply point out the fact that we just had 80 hours worth of meetings instead of working.

This is the problem with meetings. The majority of them take up actual working time and result in nothing productive.

Avoid pointless meetings

If I am advising you to avoid meetings, then why did I just spend 80 hours in them? Because I had to.

These were contractual meetings tied to large infrastructure projects. When you are a discipline lead, you don’t always have the option to skip them. You are required to be there whether the meeting is useful or not.

But that does not change the underlying problem. Most meetings are not designed to produce outcomes. They are designed because “we need a meeting.”

The real problem is not meetings, it is meeting overload

There is a difference between a useful meeting and constant interruption. Research shows that meetings are necessary for coordination, but once they cross a certain threshold, they start working against you instead of for you .

The biggest issue is not even total meeting time. It is frequency. Back-to-back meetings create a fragmented day. You never get enough uninterrupted time to actually think, plan, or execute. You are constantly switching contexts, and every switch has a cost.

Even if you technically have “free time” between meetings, it is not usable time. You cannot start deep work when you have 30 minutes before the next call. So that time becomes dead time. That is how you end up in a situation where your calendar is full, but nothing gets done.

Why most meetings feel pointless

Let’s be honest. People do not hate meetings for no reason. They hate them because they are poorly run. The research lines up almost perfectly with what you see in real life. Meetings feel pointless when:

1. There is no clear outcome

Most meetings are labeled as “updates” or “discussions.” That is the first problem. If the meeting is not driving a decision, resolving a conflict, or producing a deliverable, it probably should not exist.

2. The wrong people are in the room

Large meetings kill accountability. When ten people are invited, three people talk, five people listen, and two people are doing something else entirely.

3. There is no agenda or the agenda is not followed

Meetings drift. Topics expand. Time gets wasted. Research consistently shows that simply having and completing an agenda is one of the strongest predictors of whether a meeting is perceived as effective.

When I set up a meeting, I always include an agenda or at least an outline of the things that need to be discussed as well the reason for the meeting.

4. There are no decisions or action items

This is the biggest one. If a meeting ends without clear decisions, owners, and deadlines, then you did not have a meeting. You had a conversation that will need to be repeated later. That is how one meeting turns into three.

This is the second thing I always do regardless if the meeting stayed on track or not. If I set up a meeting, it it because I need something done. I wrap up every call with an action list and who is responsible for what.

5. There is no time to recover

This is something people underestimate. Bad meetings do not just waste the hour they occupy. They also waste time after the meeting because you need to reconstruct what just happened, figure out next steps, and regain focus. That recovery time is real, and it adds up.

The hidden cost of meetings

People think meetings cost one hour because they are one hour long. That is not how it works. A one-hour meeting with ten people is not one hour. It is ten hours of company time. Add in preparation, context switching, and recovery, and the real cost is even higher.

Now stack those meetings back-to-back across an entire week. You are not just losing time. You are losing your ability to produce anything meaningful. That is why people feel busy but unproductive.

Do more meetings improve productivity?

Short answer: no.

Longer answer: up to a point, yes. After that point, absolutely not.

There is a threshold where meetings help coordination and alignment. But once you pass that threshold, more meetings start reducing contribution, creativity, and actual output .

This is exactly what most workplaces get wrong. They assume more communication equals better results. In reality, too much communication becomes noise.

How to make meetings actually useful

You cannot eliminate all meetings. But you can make them better. Think of meetings in three phases: before, during, and after.

Before the meeting

1. Define the outcome, not the topic. Do not schedule a “project update.” Schedule a “decision on X” or “approval of Y.” If you cannot define a clear meeting outcome, then don’t schedule the meeting yet. Perhaps instead of a meeting you just need to talk to one or two other people.
2. Use an agenda that can actually be completed. Be realistic with the time. If your agenda requires two hours, do not book a one-hour meeting and hope for the best.
3. Invite only the people who are needed. More people does not mean better decisions. It usually means slower ones. Make sure you invite the ones that need to make a decision. If they cannot attend, reschedule.
4. Send information in advance. This one drives me nuts. Meetings should not be used to read slides out loud. People should come in ready to decide, not ready to learn what the meeting is about. If I call a meeting, I spend time ahead of the meeting preparing the materials everyone needs to be familiar with to make a decision. Although I do this, most attendees never read the materials. But I keep doing that because I want my meetings to be productive. 

During the meeting

1. Start and end on time. This sounds basic, but it matters. It sets the tone for everything else.
2. Assign someone to lead. Meetings without a clear leader drift. Someone needs to control the flow, keep things on track, and push toward outcomes. If someone schedules a meeting that I need to speak at, I make sure to check in with the organizer to see who is leading and when I need to jump in and talk.
3. Focus on contribution, not discussion. If the same two people are talking for an hour, you do not need ten people in the meeting. Design the meeting so people actually contribute. You can always provide a summary of the meeting to a wider audience (see next).

After the meeting

1. Document decisions immediately. What was decided? Who is responsible? What are the deadlines? If this is not written down, it will be forgotten or debated again.
2. Follow up quickly. The longer you wait, the more context is lost. This is what creates the need for “follow-up meetings.”

Practical advice for real-world projects

If you are in a role where you cannot avoid meetings, you need to manage them differently.

Here is what actually works:

1. Separate status from meetings. Status updates should not be meetings. Use emails, dashboards, or shared documents. Reserve meetings for decisions and problem-solving.
2. Split meetings into two types. Decision meetings with the right people, short and focused. Working sessions with smaller groups where actual work gets done.
3. Protect your calendar. Do not allow full days of back-to-back meetings. If your schedule is packed, you are not being productive. You are being scheduled.
4. Push back when needed. If a meeting has no agenda or purpose, ask what the outcome is. If no one can answer, you already know the meeting is not necessary.

Final thought

Meetings are not inherently pointless. But meeting overload is very real. The problem is not that meetings exist. The problem is that they are overused, poorly designed, and treated as a default solution.

At a certain point, meetings stop supporting work and start replacing it. And when that happens, you end up exactly where I was this week.

80 hours of meetings and 12 hours to do 80 hours of work? That is not a productivity problem. That is a meeting problem.

Excluding RESPs, contributions this month added up to $1,048.08.

Here is how things changed last month, including our contributions.

I started to buy bonds to increase my exposure. My plan is to slowly start building up cash and bonds alongside other fixed income with higher monthly dividends.

Let's explore what each category includes and some reasons for changes:

• Mortgage - we are on a variable rate and the interest rates went down in the past year.
• Insurance - insurance rates went up and we added a third vehicle.
• Households and home maintenance - nothing major this month, just reloading on laundry detergent, various papers (tissues, paper towels, toilet paper) and cleaning suppliers.
• Property taxes - no taxes due this month.
• Utilities - gas, water and electricity.
• Cell phones - no changes
• Internet - our promotional rate expired. I called the provided and was able to get a small reduction. This is the lowest fiber cost in the area.
• Car payment - no changes
• Car maintenance - bluetooth receiver for our 2004 RAV4. Excellent upgrade!
• Streaming - Netflix and YouTube. Others are paid annually and Apple TV is free for the next year or so thanks to a bunch of Apple gift cards I got 2 years ago.
• Food - expenses are roughly about the same.
• Fuel - March break trip and high gas prices.
• Kids - a little lower this month due to our kids' extracurriculars not sending an invoice on time. Kids expenses will be a little higher next month so this will be offset.
• Restaurants - had guests a couple of times and saw friends during March break.
• Banking fees - a mix of interest rate payments on credit line transactions for a few days, fees for e-transfers and certified cheque fees.
• Fun money - coffee, books, games, etc. Small daily purchases and fun expenses. I bought a bunch of Steam games during the Lunar sale.
• Clothing - this is only for adult clothes. Kids' clothing is covered under the "kids" category.
• Personal care - self-explanatory.
• Alcohol - self-explanatory
• Parking - decided to split parking out of "fun money".
• Gifts - had to get my father-in-law a last minute plane ticket to see family.

Overall, a reduction of $589.11 in expenses. This is what happens when you are tracking your spending - numbers make you want to take action even if you don't follow a budget.

Things were trending in an even better direction but life always find a way to screw you over. If I didn't have to buy a last minute plane ticket, we would have saved an extra ~$500. Fortunately, our monthly cash-flow allows to absorb small emergencies without emptying our accounts.

Sometimes you need to buy that expensive car and get yourself into financial trouble to learn a lesson. That's how I learned my lesson about cars when I graduated. That lesson will stay with me for years. The difference between me and others is that I actually learned a lesson. It is not guaranteed that you will learn a lesson. Many people I have talked to over the years accept the fact that they need to continuously spend $1,000/month per car for their entire lives to have a "safe and new" car. They clearly do not learn any lessons.

The school parking lot as a financial mirror

That school pickup line told a story. New trucks, luxury SUVs, fresh off the lot. And there I was in a paid-off 2004 RAV4, feeling completely fine about it. Better than fine, actually. Because I know what it cost me, both financially and mentally, to get to this point of not caring.

According to a ratehub article from earlier this year, the average new vehicle payment in Canada has climbed to over $1000/month, and that's before insurance, fuel, and maintenance. Yet people keep signing those papers. Why? Because the pain of a bad financial decision fades faster than the lesson it should teach.

Pain is the best teacher — but only if you let it be

There's a concept in behavioural economics called the "pain of paying." Research by Drazen Prelec and Duncan Simester at MIT found that people feel genuine psychological discomfort when spending money, but that discomfort diminishes significantly when payments are delayed or abstracted, like through financing. 

Car loans are the perfect trap for this. You sit in a dealership, sign for $1000/month, and drive away in something shiny. The pain is invisible. Until month 14, when you're skipping savings contributions, eating out less, and wondering where your money went. That is the tuition. And some people pay it their whole lives without ever getting the degree. For me that realization happened somewhere in the 2-3 year mark of having a new, expensive vehicle about 15 years ago. I paid the tuition once. I had to. And I'm glad I did.

Why some people never learn the lesson

Here's the uncomfortable truth: financial mistakes only teach you something if you're willing to be honest about what went wrong. Most people aren't. It's far easier to rationalize:

• "I needed something reliable."
• "It's a safety issue with the kids."
• "Interest rates were low."
• "I got a good deal."

And so the cycle continues. According to Equifax Canada, the average auto loan term in Canada has stretched past 84 months (seven years) for many new vehicle purchases. Seven years! That's not a car payment. That's a second mortgage on a depreciating asset.

People aren't making these choices because they're foolish. They're making them because they never sat with the discomfort of a previous mistake long enough to let it change their behaviour.

The badge of the paid-off car

There's a certain quiet confidence that comes from owning a vehicle outright, especially one that's "too old" by society's standards. You stop seeing the car as a reflection of your worth. You start seeing it as a tool. A reliable, paid-for tool that gets your kids to school just as well as a $100,000 truck does.

Personal finance author Thomas J. Stanley, in The Millionaire Next Door (one of my favorite books by the way), found that the majority of wealthy Americans drive used or older vehicles and avoid leasing. The image of wealth and the reality of wealth are often polar opposites. 

My 2004 RAV4 isn't a symbol of struggle. It's a symbol of a lesson learned and applied.

The lesson isn't "never buy a nice car"

I want to be clear: this isn't about self-deprivation or shaming anyone for their choices. If you can genuinely afford a $100k vehicle, meaning it's a small fraction of your net worth and you're not sacrificing your financial future, go ahead. Enjoy it.

But most people in that school pickup line aren't in that position. And they never will be, partly because of that vehicle sitting in their driveway.

The lesson I learned is simple: a car is not an investment, it's an expense, and the less of that expense you carry, the more freedom you buy yourself in every other area of life.

I learned that the hard way. I wish everyone could learn it some other way. But for most of us, we have to feel the sting first. The only question is whether you're paying attention when it happens.

While sitting there, I could not help but notice something. The average age of attendees was in their 50s. The directors were mostly in their 60s. There was talk about needing “new blood” and “refreshing” the association, but when it came time to vote, nothing changed. The same people stayed in place. The same ideas carried forward.

That was frustrating, but it was not the part that stuck with me. What stood out was the conversations. As I spoke with more people, I quickly remembered why I dislike these events. Most of the members lived to work. There was very little going on outside of their jobs. No hobbies. No interests. No curiosity beyond their field. No one talked about anything besides work.

And then it clicked. A lot of them do not want to retire because they have nothing to retire to. That is a dangerous place to be. This is why you need hobbies, interests, and some awareness of what is happening in the world. Work should not be your entire personality.

Why You Need a Hobby

There is the obvious anecdotal reason above, but there are also very practical ones.

1. Stress reduction - Work stress compounds. Hobbies give your brain a break and help reset your baseline.
2. Your brain needs variety - Doing the same type of work every day narrows how you think. Hobbies introduce new inputs and keep your brain flexible.
3. Burnout prevention - If your only mental loop is work, you never really disconnect. Hobbies force a context switch.
4. Physical benefits - If your hobby is active, you get the added benefit of better health, energy, and longevity.
5. Non-work connections - Hobbies often introduce you to people outside of your industry. That alone is valuable.

Unlike the folks I met at that meeting, I have a lot of hobbies and interests. Probably too many, which is its own problem. I am actually looking forward to retirement so I can spend more time on them, not because I want to escape work. 

I also find it odd when people say they do not have a hobby. A hobby does not need to be complicated. It can be:

• Walking
• Reading
• Cooking
• Building something
• Learning a random skill

When we lived downtown Toronto, walking was our hobby. We would spend hours exploring the city and finding places we did not know existed.

Why You Need Interests Outside of Work

Hobbies are what you do. Interests are what you think about. They matter just as much.

1. They keep you from becoming narrow - If all you consume is work-related content, your thinking becomes predictable. Interests expose you to different ideas.
2. They improve problem solving - Your brain connects ideas across domains. That is where better solutions come from.
3. They make you more interesting - This one is underrated. If all you talk about is work, conversations get repetitive. Interests give you range. They help in:

• Work settings
• Client interactions
• Social environments

4. They reduce overthinking - If work is your only mental outlet, your brain keeps looping on it. Interests act as a circuit breaker.

Also Read the News

This is the third piece most people ignore. I am not talking about scrolling headlines or arguing online. I mean intentionally staying informed.

1. It helps you understand the world you operate in - Interest rates, inflation, policies, and industry trends all affect your life whether you pay attention or not.
2. It improves decision making - Better information leads to better decisions, especially when it comes to money and career.
3. It builds awareness and perspective - If you read from multiple sources, you start to recognize bias and filter information better.
4. It gives you an edge in conversations - Being informed makes you more credible. People notice.
5. It helps you spot opportunities - Not everything in the news is negative. A lot of opportunities show up there first.

Final Thought

Work is where you earn. Hobbies are where you grow. Interests are what keep your mind active.

Staying informed keeps you grounded in reality. If you ignore everything outside of work, you end up with nothing to step into when work is gone. And that is not a great position to be in.

1. They focus only on what is being asked of them, doing the bare minimum
2. They are already familiar with the subject matter and think they can rely on memory
3. They are new and underestimate how much there is to track
4. They assume they can just ask for details later

I was in that third group at the start of my career. It took me about two months to realize I was already falling behind simply because I wasn’t writing things down.

Why You Should Take Notes

Your brain is not as reliable as you think it is. In a short five minute one on one, you might remember most of what was said. But stretch that meeting to thirty minutes. Add multiple people, different disciplines, side conversations, and shifting priorities. Now try to remember what you were asked to do, when it is due, and how it fits into everything else. That is where things fall apart.

Taking notes is your insurance against being human. It gives you a clear record of what needs to get done and when. It helps you track decisions, not just tasks. It reduces the mental load of trying to remember everything, which frees you up to actually think, contribute, and ask better questions.

And if we are being honest, it also makes you look organized, reliable, and on top of things. That matters more than people admit.

How to Take Notes (Without Overthinking It)

There is no perfect system. The best system is the one you actually use. I personally switch between a few methods depending on the situation:

• A notebook and pen
• A simple note taking app on my computer or phone

There are plenty of apps out there, but you do not need anything fancy. My go to is Notepad++. It is simple, fast, and distraction free. But what matters is not the tool. It is how you use it.

When you are in a meeting:

• Pay attention, even when the topic is not directly related to you
• Write down high level points for general discussions
• When the focus shifts to your work, capture details clearly
• Note action items, deadlines, and who is responsible
• Flag anything you do not understand so you can ask before the meeting ends

A good rule of thumb is this - if you would be annoyed having to ask for it again later, write it down now.

It also helps to go into meetings with a rough idea of what might come up. That way you can filter what matters and capture the important pieces faster.

In Conclusion

Notetaking is a simple skill, but it has a big impact. It is not about writing everything down. It is about capturing the right things so you can act on them later.

If it does not come naturally, that is fine. It didn’t for me either. Like anything else, it gets easier with practice. Over time, you will develop your own style and system.

And once it clicks, you will wonder how you ever worked without it.

So what exactly is a Group RRSP?

What is a Group RRSP?

A Group RRSP is simply a regular RRSP that is organized through your employer for all employees.

It works almost exactly like your personal RRSP. The main difference is that your employer partners with a financial institution to run the plan and administer the accounts for everyone at the company.

Because of that, there are usually some limitations compared to a personal RRSP. The investment options are typically selected by the financial institution and your employer. That means you cannot buy anything you want like you could in a self-directed brokerage account.

Most GRRSPs are run by large institutions such as Sun Life, Manulife, or Canada Life. The investments available are usually mutual funds, target-date retirement funds, bond funds, or money market funds.

Another thing to be aware of is fees. These funds often have slightly higher management expense ratios (MERs) than the low-cost ETFs you could buy in your own RRSP.

Even with these limitations, I still think GRRSPs are one of the best financial opportunities available to employees. The reason is simple - they often come with an immediate 100 percent return.

Let me explain.

How Group RRSPs Work

Employers that offer a GRRSP will usually match employee contributions up to a certain amount. In my line of work I have seen matches ranging from about 2 percent to 7 percent of base salary. The most common match I have seen is around 3.5 percent. Here is how it most commonly works:

1. If you are a recent hire, your new hire package will have a GRRSP sign up form. If you are an old hire, reach out to HR and ask for the form. 
2. As you are filling out the form, you will need to select a contribution percentage. I always go for the max contribution. Some forms will also ask you which financial product you want to invest in. Others leave that for later once your account is set up. If you have to select a product up front, do some research online. The most common product will be a mutual fund with a target retirement date. Let’s say you are 25 years old in 2026 and will retire in 40 years (ugh, just don’t think about it). The financial institution will probably have a fund that targets 2065 as the retirement horizon. Pick that if you are comfortable with volatility. If you are not, pick something a little less volatile. Whatever you pick, do some reading. Fill out the form and send it to HR. It will take 2-3 weeks to get a response from the financial institution.
3. Once your account is set up, you should see a deduction from your pay. If you see that deduction, then you are enrolled and have started contributing.
4. Figure out how to log into the financial institution. Once you are logged in, get familiar with the online account and where to find statements, transactions, shares, costs, etc. With some institutions, this is where you need to make a selection how your contributions are allocated. If that’s the case, read the factsheets for all funds and do some online research. Some institutions require you to instruct them how to invest your contribution as well as your employers’. Make sure you have provided instructions on how both of these amounts need to be invested. 
5. Check the transaction history online to make sure your employer is also contributing to your account. This is where that 100% rate of return comes. You invest $100 and your employer adds $100. You just doubled your money.
6. Sit back and watch the money roll in over the next 40 years.

That is what I mean when I say Group RRSPs can offer an immediate 100 percent return.

Be Mindful of Taxes

Your RRSP contribution limit is generally 18 percent of your previous year’s earned income up to a maximum amount set by the government. For 2025 that maximum was $32,490. Your GRRSP contributions count toward that limit. So do your employer’s matching contributions.

If you also contribute to a personal RRSP account, you need to make sure the combined contributions do not exceed your available RRSP room. If you overcontribute beyond the small $2,000 buffer allowed by the government, you may face penalties.

One small detail people often notice is that employer contributions appear on your income as a taxable benefit. However, that same amount is also contributed to your RRSP, which creates an RRSP deduction that offsets it.

In practice the tax impact usually cancels out.

Some Downsides of Group RRSPs

Like most financial products, GRRSPs are not perfect.

Limited Investment Options

Most GRRSPs are offered through large financial institutions like Sun Life, Manulife, or Canada Life. That means you are limited to the funds available in that specific plan. Usually these include target-date funds, balanced funds, bond funds, and money market funds.

You cannot usually buy individual stocks or low-cost ETFs the way you could in a self-directed brokerage account. Limited investment options also mean limited investing strategies.

Higher Fees

The funds offered in GRRSP plans often have higher MERs than the equivalent ETFs available to individual investors. Over many decades, higher fees can reduce your long-term returns.

This is one of the reasons some people transfer their GRRSP funds into a personal brokerage account once they leave the company. Personally, I transfer them once per year.

Transfer and Withdrawal Fees

If you want to transfer money out of your GRRSP, you will likely be charged a transfer fee. If you withdraw money under government programs like the Home Buyers’ Plan or the Lifelong Learning Plan, some institutions may also charge administrative fees. These are usually small but still worth being aware of.

Locked-In Plans

Some employer plans do not allow transfers while you are still employed. This means your money must remain with the financial institution running the GRRSP until you leave the company. Not all plans work this way, but it does happen.

If your GRRSP is locked and you have high MERs, then your GRRSP may not perform as well as a personal one. But hey, free money is free money.

Affordability

One thing I did not fully appreciate early in my career is that not everyone can afford to contribute. Life gets expensive. Kids arrive. A spouse might go back to school. Mortgage payments go up. Groceries cost more. Everything seems to get more expensive at the same time. My own monthly GRRSP contribution is roughly the same as my car payment. It is not far off from what we spend on groceries. It is similar to our utility bills.

Now imagine two working parents both contributing to their employer plans. That can add up to a significant portion of the household budget. For some families every dollar matters, and contributing is simply not possible at certain stages of life. Early in my career, I judged people who could not afford to contribute. But now, I totally get it.

Final Thoughts

If your employer offers a GRRSP, it is usually worth signing up and contributing at least enough to get the full employer match. That employer match is essentially free money.

Over time, the combination of your contributions, your employer’s contributions, and the power of compounding can build a surprisingly large retirement portfolio. Forty years may sound like a long time, but the earlier you start, the easier the journey becomes. Your future self will thank you.

What Is Life Insurance?

Imagine a family where both parents work and bring home money to pay for food, the house, clothes, and fun things. Imagine that neither one on their own can support the family. Now imagine something happens to one of these parents and they are no longer around.

Life insurance is like a promise from an insurance company. You pay the insurance company a small amount of money every month. In return, they promise that if something happens to you, they will give a big pile of money to your family. That money helps your family pay for things like the house, food, school, and other bills.

Life insurance is basically a financial safety net for the people who depend on you. If no one depends on your income, then you don’t need life insurance.

Common types of life insurance

The most common types of life insurance include:

• Term
• Permanent

Let’s quickly look at each type.

Term Life Insurance

This is the simplest and usually the cheapest option. You buy insurance for a specific period of time like 10 years, 20 years or 30 years.

If you die during that period, the insurance company pays your family the agreed amount. If you do not die during that period, the policy ends and nothing is paid out.

Term life insurance is popular because it is cheap, simple and only covers the years when people usually need protection the most like while raising children, while paying a mortgage, and while your family mainly depends on your income.

This is the type of insurance both my wife and I have. We got it when we got married and bought a home. We paid for insurance that is enough to cover a funeral, the mortgage and a bit of extra to take time off.

Permanent Life Insurance

Permanent insurance lasts your entire life as long as you keep paying. It also has an investment or savings component inside the policy. This is where things start to get more complicated. There are three common types - whole, universal and variable.

Whole Life Insurance

Whole life insurance combines two things - insurance and a built-in savings account. Part of your payment pays for insurance while another part goes into a cash value that slowly grows.

This cash value can sometimes be borrowed against. The policy is designed to last your entire life and eventually pay out.

Whole life is much more expensive than term insurance. Sometimes 5 to 10 times more expensive for the same coverage.

Universal Life Insurance

Universal life is similar to whole life but more flexible. It still has an insurance component and a savings component but you may be able to adjust the premium payments, coverage and investment allocation.

The cash value inside the policy may be invested in different funds. Because of this flexibility, it can be more complicated and harder to understand.

Variable Life Insurance

Variable life insurance takes the investment portion further. The savings part of the policy can be invested in things similar to mutual funds. That means the value can go up or down depending on the market. This adds more risk and potentially higher cost.

What Do I Need?

A common rule of thumb is:

• Use term life insurance for protection
• Use regular investments for wealth building

In other words - insurance protects against risk while investments build wealth. Trying to combine both in one product can sometimes make things unnecessarily expensive.

And “expensive” is the reason you see and hear so many companies and independent salespeople pushing permanent life insurance. The commissions on this product are high. Unless there is a specific tax reason to use permanent life insurance, stay away from it and from people pushing it.

A lot of the confusion comes from misunderstanding how the tax system actually works. So before getting into how to file, it helps to clear up a few common misconceptions.

Common misconceptions

One of the biggest problems with taxes is that people repeat the same bad information year after year until it starts sounding true. It usually is not.

Canada has a progressive tax system

Canada uses a progressive tax system. That means your income is taxed in layers, not at one flat rate on the entire amount you earn.

In simple terms, you pay a lower rate on the first portion of your income, a higher rate on the next portion, and so on. Only the income that falls into the next bracket gets taxed at that higher rate. The income below that threshold keeps its lower rate.

This is where many people get tripped up. They think moving into a higher tax bracket means all of their income suddenly gets taxed more heavily. That is not how it works.

If you earn more money, you do not somehow end up taking home less because you crossed into a new bracket. That is not possible under our tax system. You may keep a smaller percentage of the extra dollars you earn, but you are still earning more money overall.

A raise or overtime will not make you poorer

This is one of the most stubborn tax myths out there.

Let’s say you earn $70,000 and get a raise to $75,000. The first $70,000 is taxed exactly the same way it was before. Only the additional $5,000 gets taxed at your higher marginal rate, assuming that extra income falls into the next bracket.

The same idea applies to overtime. Working more hours does not somehow make your paycheck worse overall. Yes, the additional earnings may be taxed at a higher marginal rate, and yes, payroll deductions may look larger on that particular pay period, but you are still ahead.

You are never punished for earning more. You are simply taxed appropriately on the additional income.

Bonuses are not taxed more

This is another one I hear all the time, and probably even more often than the overtime myth.

Bonuses are not actually taxed at a special higher rate in the long run. What often happens is that the tax withheld at the time of payment is higher, which makes it feel like the bonus got hit harder.

Payroll systems often treat that bonus as if it reflects your normal pay level. So if you receive a $10,000 bonus on a biweekly pay cycle, payroll may temporarily calculate withholding as though you earn that amount every two weeks. In other words, it may estimate your annual pay as if that bonus is part of every paycheque. That produces a much larger tax withholding upfront. That means that although you are earning $70,000, your bonus gets taxed as if you are earning 26 x $10,000, or $260,000.

But when you file your tax return, all of your income gets added together and reconciled properly. Salary is salary. Bonus is income. It all ends up in the same bucket at year end. If too much tax was withheld during the year, you may get some of it back as a refund.

The system does not punish bonuses. It just tends to withhold conservatively in the moment.

A tax refund is not free money

This one is worth mentioning too.

Many people get excited about a refund and treat it like a bonus from the government. In reality, a refund usually means you paid more tax during the year than you needed to. It is your own money coming back to you.

That is not necessarily a bad thing. Some people like getting a refund because it feels like forced savings. But it is important to understand what it actually is. A big refund does not automatically mean you did something clever. It can simply mean too much tax was withheld.

On the flip side, owing money at tax time does not automatically mean something went wrong either. It may just mean not enough tax was withheld during the year, especially if you had multiple income sources, self employment income, or investment income.

How to file taxes and what to do

For most people in Canada, tax season is mostly about gathering your slips, entering the information into tax software, and filing the return. That is really the core of it.

The hard part is not usually the filing itself. The hard part is making sure you gathered all the documents that report your income and any deductions or credits you may be eligible for.

How to gather documents

Your employer will usually provide a T4 slip showing how much you earned and how much tax was deducted from your pay during the year.

These days, many employers no longer mail paper copies. Instead, they upload slips to payroll or HR systems like Workday, ADP, or similar portals. If you do not receive anything in the mail, check your employer’s system first. Personally, aside from my first full time job more than 15 years ago, every employer since has provided tax slips electronically. The important thing is to not ignore the email telling you the slip is ready.

Another very useful place to find tax slips is through your CRA account. Many employers, banks, brokerages, and other institutions send copies of your slips directly to the CRA, and they appear there automatically. Even when employers gave me access through their own systems, I often ended up pulling the slips from my CRA account anyway because it was all in one place.

As your life gets more financially complicated, you may have more documents to collect. Some common ones include T5 slips for interest income, T3 slips for trust income, T5008 slips for securities transactions, and RRSP contribution receipts.

RRSP slips are especially important because they are one of the most common deductions people overlook or forget to enter. If you contributed to an RRSP, your financial institution will issue a receipt. That receipt may show up in your brokerage portal, your banking portal, by email, or in the mail. Do not ignore it. It can reduce your taxable income and make a meaningful difference.

It is also worth checking for other slips depending on your situation. If you changed jobs, worked contract work, earned side income, collected employment insurance, received tuition slips, or have children in daycare, you may have more than just a T4.

Look for common deductions and credits

Once you have your income slips, the next step is looking at deductions and credits you may be able to claim.

Some common ones include childcare expenses, charitable donations, medical expenses, and tuition amounts from post secondary education. RRSP contributions are another major one, and for many working adults, that is one of the biggest tax planning tools available.

In most cases, these come with receipts or official slips that you simply enter into your software. Some receipts start showing up as early as January, while others may take longer. Whenever I receive paper receipts, I keep them together in one marked envelope so I do not have to go hunting for them later. That small habit alone makes tax season much less annoying.

A good general rule is simple. If you paid for something that feels like it might matter for taxes, keep the receipt until you confirm whether it counts or not.

Filing your tax return

Once you have your slips and receipts, filing is usually straightforward. Most Canadians use tax software that connects directly to the CRA and allows them to submit electronically.

A lot of tax programs can even pull your information directly from CRA using the Auto fill My Return feature. That saves time and reduces the risk of missing a slip that was already reported to CRA.

Another advantage of software is that after your first year, much of your personal information carries forward. So the next year, you are not starting from scratch. You are mostly updating the new slips and receipts.

Some common tax software options include TurboTax, Wealthsimple Tax, UFile, and H&R Block software.

For many people, filing with software is more than enough. If your tax situation is simple, the entire process can take less than an hour once you have everything ready. If your situation is more complex, such as owning a business, having rental income, managing a lot of investments, or dealing with multiple income streams, it may make sense to work with an accountant. But don't cheap out.

That is what I ended up doing when the side business I am a partner in started earning serious money. At first, the accountant was handling corporate taxes, but eventually the firm also began doing our personal returns as part of the broader services.

It really is that simple for most people

Yes, for most Canadians, filing taxes really is just gathering slips, gathering receipts, entering the information into software, checking it, and submitting it.

The biggest thing that makes this process easier is having access to your CRA account. If you do not have access yet, set that up early. Do not wait until the last minute, because the CRA is not exactly known for moving at lightning speed.

Having that account ready can save you a lot of stress, especially if you are missing a slip, changed employers, or forgot where a document was originally posted.

Some simple ways to avoid tax season stress

People get overwhelmed by the idea of filing taxes, but most of that stress comes from procrastination and disorganization, not from the filing itself.

What helped me the most back when I was doing everything myself was breaking the whole process into small pieces and spreading it out over time.

Start early. Make a list of the documents and information you expect to need. Begin with the obvious ones like your T4, RRSP slips, and T5 slips if you have a savings account or non registered investments. As your life gets more complicated, expand the list.

As slips and receipts come in, check them off and save them in one central place. Make sure you can log into your CRA account early in the season. Choose your tax software ahead of time and get it installed. If it is your first year using that program, enter your basic information like your name, address, and SIN when you have time, rather than leaving it all for one sitting.

Then just chip away at it. Enter some data one day. Enter more the next. Review it once everything is in. Double check names, numbers, and account details. Then submit it electronically and move on with your life.

That gradual approach makes the whole thing feel much smaller.

Final thoughts

Tax season sounds scarier than it is. For most people, it is not a complicated financial event. It is an administrative task.

The most important things are understanding how taxes actually work, ignoring the nonsense myths people repeat about raises and bonuses, and staying organized enough to collect your slips and receipts in one place.

Once you understand that Canada taxes income progressively, and once you realize that most filing is just data entry with some basic checking, the whole process becomes much less intimidating.

Taxes are one of those things that sound massive until you actually sit down and do them. Then you realize it is mostly just paperwork, a bit of patience, and not panicking when you hear words like tax bracket.

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Let's explore what each category includes and some reasons for changes:

• Mortgage - we are on a variable rate and the interest rates went down in the past year.
• Insurance - insurance rates went up and we added a third vehicle.
• Households and home maintenance - we bought new Muskoka chairs.
• Property taxes - small increase in property taxes.
• Utilities - gas, water and electricity.
• Cell phones - no changes
• Internet - our promotional rate expired. I called the provided and was able to get a small reduction. This is the lowest fiber cost in the area.
• Car payment - no changes
• Car maintenance - very little driving this month due to the record low temperatures so little maintenance. I also stocked up on windshield fluid in January.
• Streaming - just Netflix. Others are paid annually and Apple TV is free for the next year or so thanks to a bunch of Apple gift cards I got 2 years ago.
• Food - expenses are roughly about the same.
• Fuel - very cold so limited driving.
• Kids - our second kid is now old enough for extra curriculars. Although we are no longer paying for daycare, he started a junior coding class which costs nearly as much.
• Restaurants - we had family stay over with us for a week so we got takeout a few times.
• Banking fees - a mix of interest rate payments on credit line transactions for a few days, fees for e-transfers and certified cheque fees.
• Fun money - coffee, books, games, etc. Small daily purchases and fun expenses. I bought a bunch of Steam games during the Lunar sale.
• Clothing - this is only for adult clothes. Kids' clothing is covered under the "kids" category.
• Personal care - self-explanatory.
• Alcohol - self-explanatory
• Gifts - self-explanatory. Because of the cold weather, we didn't attend many events.

Overall, a reduction of $692.69 in expenses. This is what happens when you are tracking your spending - numbers make you want to take action even if you don't follow a budget.

Contributions this month added up to $1,829.98.

Here is how things changed last month, including our contributions.

I started to buy bonds to increase my exposure. My plan is to slowly start building up cash and bonds alongside other fixed income with higher monthly dividends.

The problem is simple. Your sunk costs are gone. You cannot recover them. You cannot negotiate with them. You cannot undo them. The past is out of your control. The present and future are not. Yet people constantly let yesterday’s decisions dictate tomorrow’s outcomes.

Let’s look at a few examples I see regularly in my own career and in conversations with friends.

Staying at a job you hate

I know many people working jobs they dislike. The reasons always sound familiar.

• “I already put X years into this company.”
• “I am almost at the next promotion.”
• “I do not want to start over.”

I understand that last one. Learning new systems, new names, new politics takes effort. It is uncomfortable. But if the culture is wrong, the growth is capped, or your compensation is stagnant, the X years you already invested are irrelevant to the next X years.

The decision to leave should be based on:

• Future earnings
• Future growth
• Future happiness
• Opportunity cost

Not past time invested.

I have been there. The promotion comes. The raise comes. You feel great for a few months. Then reality sets back in. The same environment. More responsibility. More stress. Work does not get easier as you climb. It gets harder.

If you hate the job today, a slightly bigger title will not fix it long term. Sometimes the rational move is to cut your losses and move on.

Finishing a degree you no longer want

Most people I know who switched degrees did so because they struggled academically. Very few switch because they realize they simply do not like the field.

I know two people who finished their degrees, worked briefly, and then went right back to school. That cost them a few extra years. They made that decision young. Today they are both happy in their fields and have zero regrets. That is the difference between ego and clarity.

Halfway through, you realize:

• The field is not for you.
• The job prospects are not what you expected.
• You dread the thought of doing this for the next 30 years.

But you continue because “I already paid for two years.” Those two years are gone whether you finish or pivot. The tuition is gone too. You cannot buy back time. You can earn more money. Sometimes cutting losses early saves you decades of dissatisfaction.

Holding onto a bad rental property

At the time of writing, condo prices in many Canadian cities have fallen significantly. In larger cities like Toronto, condos were heavily bought as investments. In our old building in the early 2010s, under 40 percent of the units were rentals. Ten years later, close to 60 percent were rental, i.e. investment units. Many of those owners are now facing falling prices and weak cash flow.

You bought a rental property. Now:

• Repairs are constant.
• Tenants are unreliable.
• Cash flow is thin.
• The property is worth less than before.

But you hold because:

• “I have already sunk so much into renovations.”
• “I will lose too much if I sell now.”

The renovations are sunk. The purchase price is sunk. What matters is future cash flow and future return on capital.

If you freed up that equity today, could it work harder somewhere else? If prices recover, when will that be? One year? Five? Ten? Will the appreciation offset the stress and carrying costs in the meantime? Sometimes selling, even at a loss, is the most rational move.

Staying in a business you started

This one is common in engineering and consulting. After five to ten years in the field, many people launch their own firm. A few years in, they realize:

• Revenue is modest and inconsistent.
• Stress is high.
• There is no scalability.
• The client base is thin.

But they keep pushing because:

• “I already invested three years building this.”
• “I cannot go back to working for someone else.”

The three years are gone. The real question is simple. If you had not built this business already, would you start it today under the same conditions? If the answer is no, that is your signal. There is no shame in stepping back, rebuilding relationships, strengthening your financial base, and trying again later from a stronger position.

Pride is expensive. Optionality is valuable.

A quick finance example

You buy a stock at 50 dollars. It drops to 30. You tell yourself you will sell when it gets back to 50. The market does not care about your purchase price. The only relevant question is this - If you had cash today, would you buy this at 30? If not, you are holding it for emotional reasons, not financial ones.

In Conclusion

You need to learn when to quit before it is too late. The most dangerous sunk cost is not money. It is time. Money can be earned again. Time cannot. Do not stay somewhere just to justify where you have been. Make decisions based on where you want to go.

Instead of good debt and bad debt, I prefer to think of it as manageable debt and non manageable debt. And even manageable debt is still debt.

Debt Takes Away

Debt always takes something from you. It takes interest. It takes cash flow. It takes flexibility. It takes peace of mind.

People love to call a mortgage good debt because you are buying an asset. They call student loans good debt because you are investing in yourself. They call business loans good debt because they can generate income.

But every one of those still comes with an obligation. A required payment. A timeline. A lender who expects to be paid before you build wealth. That is not good. That is a liability you are carrying.

Debt Interest Is Usually Higher Than You Think

In most real world scenarios, the interest you pay on debt is higher than what you earn on your safe savings.

Credit cards can run 19 to 29 percent. Lines of credit might be 7 to 12 percent. Car loans 6 to 9 percent. Even mortgages are no longer “cheap” in many environments. Meanwhile, your savings account might pay 3 percent. Your conservative investments might average 4 to 6 percent over time. The spread matters.

If you are paying 8 percent on a loan and earning 4 percent on savings, you are effectively losing 4 percent every year on that money. That is guaranteed. Markets are not guaranteed. Debt payments are.

Even when someone argues that they can invest at 10 percent and borrow at 5 percent, that only works in hindsight and only if everything goes according to plan. Markets do not move in straight lines. Debt payments do.

Debt Reduces Cash Flow

Cash flow is freedom. Every dollar committed to debt payments is a dollar that cannot:

• Be invested
• Build an emergency fund
• Fund a business idea
• Be used to reduce work hours
• Cover a surprise expense without stress

When you carry debt, your monthly expenses are artificially higher. That means your required income is higher. Which means your dependency on your job is higher.

If your goal is early retirement, flexibility, or simply peace of mind, debt works against you. You cannot say you are financially free if a bank still owns part of your monthly income.

Debt Increases Risk

Debt amplifies risk. If your income drops, the bank still expects payment. If you lose your job, the lender does not pause your obligation. If the market drops and your investments fall, your loan balance does not fall with it.

Debt removes margin. And margin is what protects you during hard times. Without debt, a job loss is stressful. With debt, it can become a crisis very quickly.

The Psychological Cost

This part rarely gets discussed.

Debt sits in the back of your mind. Even manageable debt changes how you think. It makes you more cautious about taking risks, switching careers, starting something new, or even saying no to things you do not enjoy.

There is a quiet mental tax to knowing you owe money. When you are debt free, there is a lightness to your financial life. Decisions become cleaner. Simpler. That is worth more than a theoretical spreadsheet advantage.

The Only Time Debt “Works”

The ultra wealthy use debt differently. They borrow against appreciating assets, at extremely low rates, with large buffers, diversified income streams, and access to liquidity most people do not have.

They are not borrowing because they need to. They are borrowing because it optimizes taxes or leverage within a controlled system. That is not how most people use debt. Most people borrow because they want something now and will pay for it later. That is consumption with interest.

Manageable vs Non Manageable

Some debt may be manageable. A modest mortgage within your means. A small student loan with strong income prospects. A short term business loan with clear cash flow.

But manageable does not mean good. It just means you can survive it without breaking. If your ultimate goal is freedom, simplicity, and control over your time, then less debt is always better. Zero debt is even better.

Debt is not good. It is a tool. And most tools, when misused or overused, cause damage. The fewer financial obligations you have, the more of your life you own.

“You lied - you have a car payment”

Now, before someone pulls up one of my older posts and says, “Wait a second, you have a car payment,” let me address that.

Yes. We have a car payment. Yes. I just wrote 1,000 words about how debt takes away. No. I have not lost my mind.

A few years ago we were offered a car loan at 6 percent. At the same time, one of my REIT holdings was yielding north of 8 percent. On paper, that spread worked. Keep the money invested at 8 percent, borrow at 6 percent, and collect the difference.

In that specific situation, with stable income, a strong balance sheet, and the ability to wipe out the loan at any time, it was manageable debt.

But notice the words I just used. Manageable. Specific. Controlled. Optional. That is very different from saying debt is good.

The Math Worked. The Risk Was Managed.

The reason that car loan worked for us was not because debt is magical.

It worked because:

• We could have paid cash.
• The payment did not stretch our monthly budget.
• We had margin.
• The investment income comfortably exceeded the interest cost.
• If rates or income changed, we could eliminate the loan quickly.

That is not the same thing as financing a car because you cannot afford it. That is not the same thing as stretching to the maximum payment a bank approves.

Most people do not run that calculation. They run this one:

“What is the monthly payment?”

That is how manageable debt quietly becomes non manageable debt.

Even When the Math Works, Debt Still Takes

Even in our case, the loan still took something. It added a required monthly payment. It increased our fixed expenses. It added one more moving piece to our financial life.

Yes, the REIT was yielding over 8 percent. But that 8 percent was not guaranteed. Dividends can be cut. Prices can fall. Interest rates can rise. It has been almost 2 years and I am still earning that 8 percent, but things can change.

The 6 percent loan payment, however, was guaranteed. That is the difference. One side of the equation is flexible. The other is contractual. And that is why I still say there is no such thing as good debt. There is debt where the math works and the risk is contained. There is debt where you are exposed and hoping nothing goes wrong.

We made a calculated decision in a controlled environment. That does not suddenly turn debt into a wealth building superpower. It simply means we used it carefully and temporarily.

The Bigger Point

If tomorrow that REIT yield drops below the loan rate, or if our risk tolerance changes, the loan goes away. That optionality is what makes it manageable.

Most households do not have that flexibility. They are committed to car loans, credit cards, lines of credit, and mortgages that require two full incomes just to function. That is not leverage. That is dependence.

So yes, we have a car payment. And yes, in that moment the math worked in our favor. But I would still rather live in a world where I owe less, not more. Because the goal is not to win a small interest rate spread.

The goal is to own more of your time, your income, and your decisions. Debt, even when it works, is still a claim on your future. And I would prefer to keep as much of that future as I can.